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Finding the Cause

Every symptom or behavior your child shows has a cause. Most of the time, it’s not about something “wrong” with the body, but rather an intense emotional experience that was recorded in their system.
In this article, I’ll guide you to discover possible causes and how to identify them — so that you, as a mother, have an extra tool in the process of understanding and healing.

How the Body Reacts Based on Age

Every behavior or symptom has a cause — a moment in time. Usually, it’s a strong emotional experience.
The emotional intensity experienced by babies, children, and adults differs greatly.

In babies:

A baby can be affected by:

- a bright light immediately after birth,

- a door slammed shut,

- the diaper rubbing on their back,

- the unfamiliar sensation of poop moving through the intestines.

- a slap on the bottom to make them cry after birth can leave a “birthmark” — a mole or a permanent bruise.
- being held by someone else — can lead to a stuffy nose.
- a sudden scream — can trigger facial eczema.
- separation from the mother in the hospital — can lead to body eczema, sleepless nights, waking up every hour, and the need for constant breastfeeding.

In children:

A loud scream — may cause a fever.

Being forced to sit still on a chair — may lead to intestinal worms.

A slammed door — a sneeze.

Pulling the hood to stop them from running — vomiting and weakness.

Going to a new park — a runny nose.

Starting kindergarten — fever with sweating (from the fear of being away from their parents), a stuffy nose and excessive mucus (from having to “smell” too many new things: space, objects, people).

In adults:

You rarely sneeze — because few things still scare you.

You rarely get a runny nose — because most places are familiar.

You rarely get a fever — because you’re rarely truly afraid of anything anymore.

You rarely catch a cold — because you rarely go on trips where everything is new.

Questions That Can Help You Find the Cause

To make the correct link between a symptom and an emotional experience, ask yourself:

What part of the body is affected?(This helps narrow down the search — so you’re not looking for a needle in a haystack.)

What is the function of that body part?(Eyes — for seeing, feet — for walking, skin — for feeling, etc.)

When did the symptom first appear?

What happened on that day?

Is there another similar moment in the past that could have triggered this reaction?

Practical Examples

1. Being laid on their back

Your baby gets scared and cries every time they are laid on their back.
When did it happen for the first time?
— At the hospital, when they were taken away and weighed. That was their first experience of being laid on their back. They lived it as a trauma and now relive it every time they feel that same position.


2. Red eye

What does that part of the body do? — It sees.
When did the symptom appear? — The day after the baptism.
What happened? — The baby was held by someone unfamiliar, had an intense emotional experience, and couldn’t find safety — couldn’t find their mother.
Even if the baby didn’t cry during the process, it might be a sign of a “freeze” response due to overwhelming fear.

The sensitivity of the soul varies from person to person, regardless of age or experience. Not all babies develop symptoms, but many parents don’t notice the emotional connection behind behaviors or illnesses.


3. Bath time became a trauma

If you notice that bath time — which used to be fine — suddenly becomes a source of crying or resistance, look for a linked event.
It may also be related to the baptism: intense fear, separation from the mother, the sensation of water, the cold, being naked.
The baby may have associated water with negative emotions, and since then, bath time triggers discomfort.


Baptism and Other Acquired Fears


Baptism can leave subtle emotional imprints such as:

Fear of being held by others

Fear of dark-bearded or white-bearded men (which may later turn into fear of Santa Claus)

Crying during dressing or undressing


We may never know the exact moment of the most intense fear or what it became associated with, but the child’s behaviors and body reactions can give us valuable clues.

Your Mother’s Intuition Matters

These are not all the questions that can help find the cause — they may vary from case to case. But now you have a framework, a starting point. A map to guide you.

Trust your intuition. You are the one who knows your child best and has spent almost every minute with them.
If you feel you can’t find the cause, write to me in the chat. I’m here to support you.

These observations do not replace a medical consultation. They offer an emotional and energetic perspective on symptoms, inspired by German New Medicine, the New Biological Laws, and real-life experience with children.