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I started filming myself, and a few months later, something interesting happened.
How do we start liking people?
Published: 20 May 2026
Updated: May 2026
You know how, when we meet a new person, the first thing that hits us is their physical appearance. Some people look okay, others are downright ugly. But as you listen to them, who they are on the inside somehow starts to balance out with… how they look. And in a short time, that person who seemed ugly at first starts to look okay. I don’t know if you’ve had people like this at work too.
You actually start to like them, as you listen, as time passes.
After one year of posting on TikTok about birth, in a fairly regular way… with breaks of 2-3 weeks too :), I started to like myself.
Ha!
To accept my face?
At first… it took me many months to accept my face. To notice how my mouth moves, what speaking mistakes I make, how I talk, what tones I use. Exactly like observing a new person, but in a much more… harshly judgmental way.
My first impressions were: “Dear God… is this what I looked like when I was talking to people and I had no idea?” It’s like when you look in the mirror in the morning… I don’t know about you, but I had never watched myself talking before, really looking at how my face moves, my lips, how my teeth show…
Basically, I had the impression that I was cute, but apparently I had this face :)) For years, I had been walking around with this face. Yuck. Shocking. I was disappointed in myself for not knowing how ugly I was.
After months of editing videos and being forced to look at my face and listen to myself, I started to like myself. As if, finally, I knew the person. I got used to myself. I even started to see myself as kind of cute. I like what I say and I agree with it :)), and you know that’s what makes us feel closer to people… when we have ideas and beliefs in common…
I got closer to “my human”
So I became closer to… “my person” … the one I live inside of. It’s a completely different perspective. It’s fascinating. To get to know yourself from this point of view too.
So I recommend, even if you never post online, filming yourself from time to time, so you can meet yourself. Maybe so you can see how others see you, because at some point, after the rejection phase and before you start growing fond of yourself, you’ll be able to look at yourself objectively too.
Think about the fact that one day… you’ll have to say goodbye… to this unique body.
She’s your friend.
Not only does she physically keep you here… but she can actually become your best friend when you train your mind to work in your favor. When you build the filters — through daily practice — through which you actually want to see the world, so it can be beautiful and so you can be happy.
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