What to Wish For?

The problem I often see in the masses is that people don’t know what to wish for.

They go with the script: school, job, family, car, house, pension — and maybe some travel if they still have good health or are even alive by then.

Some might have the luck to witness other possible realities, but they don’t realize that those realities are available for them too.

They’re too stuck inside themselves, not present with their soul, unable to become aware of their choices.

So their choices are mostly automatic — coming from the autopilot of the body, the Ego formed by subconscious programming and character traits.

That’s why, when you try to have a conversation with someone like that, they simply blurt out their automatic responses — the same programs on repeat — and you don’t truly have an interlocutor.

Because their soul is not there.

The soul is the one who truly listens, holds space, and is incapable of judgment because it understands deeply.

So, most people don’t really have wishes.

Some have some wishes, but they are not defined, so nothing ever becomes true.

Because “maybe someday I’ll be rich” is not a wish.

A wish is a clear vision.

When taken seriously and felt from the heart, it becomes a fully detailed plan.

You begin to take action as the new you who holds that wish at the front of your mind every day. Focused. Its power collapses time.

A real wish usually appears only when a person has had enough suffering — when the fear of change becomes easier than the thought of staying the same.

Or when the “normal recipe” no longer feels right — but that already requires a higher level of consciousness.

You want something else.

You actively search for it.

And you see it: the universe’s menu.

Anything is available.

You are free to create.

You just don’t know what.

And then begins the real battle between the Ego and the soul.

If someone has lived a soul-led life, it’s easier.

But if the person has just woken up, the battle is greater, because the Ego has power and stubbornness.

The old programming is harder to change.

The Ego has to renounce its old identity, and the soul needs to define a new Ego with a new purpose — to perform and stay aligned with the new plan, to embody new character traits.

That is the power of owning this machinery and learning how to drive it.

Understanding that it’s your responsibility to change it as you please in order to bring the new wish into reality.

But… even though most people see possibilities through others — and now, especially with social media acting like the universe’s menu — they still don’t know what to choose.

Just choose something.

It does not matter what.

Define a few new wishes and move toward them.

This is how you discover who you truly are and what resonates with your soul.

Movement toward a wish makes your true wishes appear.

It teaches you who you are.

Who you are becoming.

What lessons these wishes bring.

The point of life is lessons.

Self-discovery.

That’s it.

By creating wishes and moving toward them, you discover yourself — your soul — and learn how to use this machinery in your favor.

Self-check questions:

“Do I even have real wishes?

“Am I acting from soul or autopilot?”

“What am I choosing without realizing?”

Take this with you:

Your soul knows exactly what it wants, but the Ego is louder — so choose something, move, and you’ll meet yourself.

Clarity is not something you wait for — it’s something you create through movement.